You came here to my site because you are looking for some solutions to your marriage woes. Great!
I believe you have come to the right place unless your marriage license came with an instruction manual like mine did.
Ha! That was a joke.
My marriage has been far from a fairy tale. Two people meet in a club at the ages of 21 and 22 and get married 6 months later! Does that sound like a match made in heaven?
Hey, there is nothing wrong with believing in love at first sight, but my husband and I had no business getting married.
I had a big mouth, daddy issues and was bossy as…well you know, but we did this marriage thing.
And that was kind of my attitude. Ok, I will do it, but if I don’t like it, I’ll quit. That’s what everyone around me did. My husband was in the military and I wanted to get out of San Antonio. I was raised in a house filled with big-mouth, bossy women who didn’t need a man, couldn’t keep a man and didn’t really want you to have one for too long either. So, off to see the world with my Prince Charming, right?
That’s not how the story goes. My marriage was a hot mess and after 8 years, my husband just left.
Who could blame him? I spent the first 8 years running him in the ground, talking about everything he did wrong. We had our son. I was working in my gift area: fashion and retail. My husband retired from the military and began a new career. I was coming home from my management job (always a boss) like normal. My husband’s car? Not there. My son’s closet is cleaned out. My husband’s clothes’ drawer? Empty. And instead of being hurt, I got angry. I called the police and told them that if he didn’t bring my baby back, I was gonna blah, blah, blah. He wasn’t taking my calls. We didn’t have any family in Maryland. His people are from Tennessee. Mine from Texas. How dare he?
I know it was God who stepped in and got him to be open to the idea that our marriage was worth it.
Yeah, God touched my husband’s heart first. I was still trying to be what I was – loud, disrespectful, demanding. My husband had changed though. He didn’t respond like before. He…he let a “gentle answer turn away wrath” and the arguing stopped. Now it wasn’t long before I started to see myself and see the damage that I had created in my marriage. Now, I got to get it together. With the help of God and great counselors, I learned to be the wife that God called me to be.
I spend my years now loving, supporting, lifting my husband up and putting my marriage at the top of my list.
And that’s what I help thousands of other wives do every day. See, my marriage survived the loss of a child, infidelity, financial hardship, loss of parents…you name it. We are still here 30 years later (and counting) and we grow in love daily; by choice and by applying the proven principles I teach. I know that these tests were not just for us. God used the tests to show me the path that He wanted for my life. He is why I left the industry and field that I loved to follow His lead.
I learned from my mistakes with the help of God and the love of my husband, and you can too!
I started Bringing Sexy Back To The Marriage (BSB) after realizing a huge void on behalf of the church. The unwillingness to talk about sex in marriage in church is forcing people to look outside of God’s word for answers. Trust me! You don’t want to do that. The world doesn’t want your marriage to be successful. They still show images of us wives being frumpy, bored, insecure. You know that ol’ ball-and-chain mess! Well, I’m not that! I am One Sexy Wife! And you will be too as you go through the site and get the answers to your burning questions.
Check out the Free Resources page where I have a Gratitude Challenge, a brand new ebook on Mind Blowing Sex and a free weekly live Wife Chat where I go live on Facebook every Tuesday with you and we just…chat.
Want to check me out live? You can tell I keep it real! Please visit our Events page where you can learn more about The Ultimate Wives Summit 2019 and register for it! It’s going to be AMAZING! also learn about my upcoming speaking schedule.
Do you think you are ready to work with me? I would love to help you Bring Sexy Back To Your Marriage. I offer group coaching, one-on coaching and my siguature coaching program Wife By Design.
Oh! I’m great to have at your event. Get all of my credentials, media and workshop titles here.
Glad to be on this journey of a better marriage and a great life with you. Go head, You Sexy Wife You.
From One Sexy Wife to another,
As a wife, especially a good, Christian wife, you have been told that you have to choose between having great sex with your husband and being a Holy woman. I’m not sure who started telling us this “truth,” but I am here to tell you that it is not the truth. It is a lie.
God has given us a special book in the Bible – The Song of Solomon. In this never-talked-about book, God is clear that we can have AMAZING sex and intimacy in our marriages. During your devotional time, I would love for you to read the love poem, The Song of Solomon. It’s better than Fifty Shades of Grey (I know some of you ladies read it, saw the movie and all). Yet, in The Song of Solomon, it shows us how we can have mind-blowing sex, when we invite God into our marriage bed. Yeah, you heard me when we invite God into our marriage bed.
Certified Master Sexpert Gail Crowder Answers Questions About Male Sexual Health that Every Wife Has
In Praying For The Penis, you will find simple-to-read information about male sexual health issues. Covering issues like erectile dysfunction, male menopause and more, Crowder guides wives on how to support and guide their husband to better health. Throughout this in-depth guide, she gives wives' solutions on how to bring intimacy, passion and closeness back into their marriages.
Many books exist on helping women to deal with sexual health matters as they age. Women's magazines and blogs are always covering menopause, weight gain, vaginal dryness, etc. But for most men the conversation isn't as easy. As men age and experience changes in their bodies, they become distant and shut off. And as a wife, this can be stressful. The conversations of stressed-out wives trying to reach their husbands is what inspired this guide.
" I knew then that wives needed guidance on the importance of a male's sexual satisfaction, not just for the health of their marriage, but for their overall fullness of life. That's why I wrote this guide!"
Here's what you will learn in this book:
How to tell if your husband suffers from erectile dysfunction (ED)
Myths and Facts about ED
Traditional and Alternative Treatments
Best Sex Toys for Men with ED
And so much more. This guide takes a unique perspective by guiding and empowering wives to help their husband navigate his sexual health without judgement or shame. For more information about Gail Crowder, please check out gailcrowder.com.
Gail Crowder, Certified Master Sexpert, marriage & Life Expert and founder of Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage, Gail has empowered hundreds of women through training, live and virtual events, and coaching to be One Sexy Wives.
A Tall Glass of Water is a useful tool for any woman who can admit that she needs help putting her life into balance. Water is vital to sustaining human life. It plays a major role in our physical body's respiration, digestion, elimination, metabolism and homeostasis -- which is basically the balance of all the major systems. Without adequate amounts of water, dehydration begins and can be life-threatening. Gail Crowder offers practical tips to rehydrate those dry places that have shown up in your life because your energy is drained and your creativity has dried up while attempting to be 'everything to everybody all the time'. In A Tall Glass of Water, she acknowledges that the task of wearing multiple hats simultaneously can be very overwhelming for a woman.
After sipping, gulping and sometimes choking on her own glass of water during her own life's journey trying to be the consummate wife, mother, lover, daughter, sister, friend, employee and entrepreneur, Gail offers principles that have been proven to succeed.
Are you dizzy from the dehydration due to the pressures pushing and pulling you in all directions?
Be honest with yourself ......are you overwhelmed?
Do you wish for more hours in the day?
If so, immerse yourself in the pages of this book, soak up the theory and principles, and your refreshing will begin......Gail generously pours out the best practices for setting your life into balance. Drink at your own pace. Feeling a little thirsty? Remember......................... nothing quenches thirst like A Tall Glass of Water.
Simple Solutions to Bring Passion, Creativity and Better Sex into Your Marriage
"When I first said "Keep Your Legs Open" as final advice to wives on a show about love and relationships, I didn't think the response would be so big. Husbands were cheering me on while wives had mixed emotions -- from a little excitement to disappointment, even anger. I knew then that wives needed guidance on the importance of sexual satisfaction, not just for the health of their marriage, but for their overall fullness of life. That's why I wrote this guide!"
Gail Crowder, marriage expert and founder of Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage, has empowered hundreds of women through training, live and virtual events, and coaching to become a One Sexy Wife. Important topics that are often considered taboo or private are outlined in simple steps that are immediately useable to create the sex life that all wives deserve to have.
Here, in Keep Your Legs Open, you will:
• Rate Your Sex Drive, so that you can know where you are and how to rev it up.
• Learn what happens to the body during orgasm and how YOU can achieve them, even multiple ones.
• Ways to get in touch with your body to better share your desires with your husband. Discover when to introduce sex toys, position pillows and other fun tools to enhance sexual pleasure .
• Identify problems or issues that are preventing sexual satisfaction, like painful intercourse, and how to resolve those matters.
Keep Your Legs Open is a simple guide to take wives to another level in pleasure and satisfaction without the feelings of judgment and shame.
If you, as a woman of God, have ever thought that being sexy is not spiritual, think again! To dispel that and other misguided notions about marriage and intimacy, Gail Crowder, Founder and President of Gail Crowder Inc., has launched a successful conference series, Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage (BSB). The conferences are designed for married and engaged women who want to understand their own responsibility in creating (or re-creating) a successfully sexy relationship, with spirituality, love and exciting intimacy - for the modern-day wife. This book serves to support anyone who has attended, or is intending to attend, or just wishes she could -- and someday will -- attend the conference in person. Even as a stand-alone, it is a helpful guide, with very practical advice, to a more satisfying and fulfilling marital relationship.
Some of you will read this book and will come away with fresh new ideas. You and your spouse may become more willing to introduce new ideas and approaches into your bedroom. Others will walk away merely entertained. Whichever your experience, it is my heart’s desire that you walk away with an open mind, and the hope that you too can have a hot and passionate love life within the intimacy of your marriage.